Trust...?

Well, recently , after what had happen to my love life, it has tought me to take your own sweet time in getting to know someone, especially, new guy friends. I understand that everyone have their own experience when it comes to love life. either you have been hurt before or you have hurt someone before.

For those i might have hurt before, i would want to say that i am sorry for everything. i didn't mean it. Maybe we just not meant for each other. I know you might say, it's easy for me to say that, the person who felt it may had their heart and feeling broken into pieces. i have my own reasons. somethimes i confess it was not their fault, it was my own fault. and sometimes, it's their own fault as well.

Due to this. i now need time to trust the other gender. Especially if that guy is interested in being more that friends. I believe if that guy is honest and sincere in having a relationship with me. he would not be pressuring me to do anything, (i.e :pushing me trusting him). Give me my time and space to know and learn more about him. Only with time that we could build the trust between two person. that is what i believe.

If that guy is really interested he would not mind waiting for the girl that he like. He would also need to take his own time to learn more and to build his trust. You can't just give you trust to anyone. If you ignore this, someday(hopefully that day never comes) you might get hurt badly.

So i now have a new principal for myself which is

"don't ever trust anyone else but yourself.... until they proof they are worth you trust"